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MASQUERADE SPRING HOMESCHOOL FORMAL 2023

By The Big White Barn (other events)

Friday, May 19 2023 6:00 PM 10:00 PM CDT
 
ABOUT ABOUT

Please join us for our spring homeschool formal dinner and MASQUERADE.  This event is for ages 14-20 and is strictly for current or recently graduated homeschoolers. Please, no requests to bring public school dates.

Enjoy a delicious meal and dance the night away with our fabulous dance callers Wes and Rachel Hurd as well as homeschoolers from around North Texas!

Read these guidelines thoroughly as NO ENTRY WILL BE ALLOWED unless they are met.  

***NEW***  FORMAL DRESS CODE: 

LADIES

NO STRAPLESS, NO OFF THE SHOULDER dresses

QUICK FIX: Clear straps can easily be tacked onto a dress.  Straps are available online and in stores.  OR provide a shrug or jacket for strapless dresses and explain to your student these must be worn all night long...even if they get warm. 

NO LOW BACK DRESSES  (must be solid, not sheer, fabric starting at just below shoulder-blades)

QUICK FIX: A nude tube top or bandeau bra is inexpensive and readily available online and blends in well with skin.  

NO SHEER/SEE-THROUGH SIDES, CUTOUTS, BARE MIDRIFFS

QUICK FIX: A tube top in a complimentary or matching color is easily obtained online.  Please do not provide a nude tube top as we will have to pull your student aside to verify we are not seeing skin but fabric.  

NECKLINES should be STRAIGHT ACROSSARMPIT TO ARMPIT, SOLID FABRIC (NOT SHEER)

QUICK FIX: Modesty panels or "camisettes" are inexpensive and readily available online and may be attached to bra straps or pinned into dresses.  These are availabe in nude and a variety of colors.  

SKIRT LENGTH must be TO THE TOP OF THE KNEE.  This applies to all OPENINGS, SLITS etc.

QUICK FIX: Coordinating pedal pusher yoga pants come in nude and a variety of colors.  Slits may be closed via sewing or safety pins.

UNDERGARMENTS PRESENT BUT NOT VISIBLE

QUICK FIX: Bike shorts, shapewear, tube tops, bandeau bras, etc. 

BIKE SHORTS under all dresses that twirl or flow

NO PANTSUITS

FORMAL WEAR ONLY, no costumes or cosplay

If you must tug at, pull up or down, or otherwise adjust your dress in order to meet guidelines, modifications are needed before you arrive.  Your dress should be compliant with dress code throughout the entire night and all activities.

 

GENTLEMEN

TUXEDOES, SUITS, AND SPORT COATS are all permissible but at least one is REQUIRED. Vests are acceptable but not required.

BELT OR SUSPENDERS recommended

If JEANS must be worn (we do not encourage this), they must be DARK FABRIC (BLACK OR NAVY)

NECKWEAR is required (tie, bow tie, bolo, etc)

COLLARED SHIRTS are required.  No tee shirts, turtlenecks, etc.  

NO SHORTS

NO SWEATSHIRTS, HOODIES, ETC.

DRESS SHOES prefered but "Vans" and "Converse" style shoes are acceptable if clean and in good condition. NO OPEN TOED SHOES, SANDALS

If BOOTS are worn, must be polished dress boots

HATS are acceptable (cowboy hats, fedoras, top hats, flat caps, tams, etc.).  NO BALL CAPS OR CASUAL HATS

NO SLOPINESS

FORMAL WEAR ONLY, no costumes or cosplay

We really want your students to have a great time and do not want them to miss out on the fun because they had to go change.  PLEASE TEXT OR EMAIL US IF IN DOUBT!  There are generally very easy solutions to fix any issues.  

NOTES:

No tickets will be sold at the door

For security reasons, no parent, grandparent, or adult entry will be allowed before or during the event unless adult is a pre-approved volunteer.  You may now indicate a desire to volunteer when you purchase your ticket.  We will reach out to you as the event draws closer.  Please note that volunteers will not recieve meals but are free to bring food or order in from Door Dash, etc.  

Pickup time will be promptly at 10pm. At this time, parents may enter the building.  No early pickup inside the building.

Photos should be taken at home or outside the venue.  The indoor photo area is for ticketed student use only.

Parents wanting to sell tickets to others must contact the barn FIRST and this must be done no later than May 15, 2023.  Tickets may only be sold to other homeschool students who have verified with the barn they have read and understand all guidelines.  Exchanged tickets are not eligible for modified meals due to dietary concerns.  We can generally help you find a buyer for your ticket.  PLEASE CONTACT US NO LATER THAN THE WEDNESDAY THE WEEK OF THE DANCE.  

Special dietary issues must be addressed at time of ticket purchase and will be accomodated as possible but are not guaranteed.  Special dietary requsts not available on exchanged tickets.  We have added a spot to request special meals with ticket purchase.  Please utilitze this feature as it will help us prepare for your student in advance.  

No refunds.

Text Cathy 817 680-5811 with any questions or attire approval.

Restrictions

GUIDELINES: PLEASE READ


1. This is a homeschool function ONLY.  Please do not bring non-homeschool friends along.  Our family dances are a great place for that!

2. Dress Code will be monitored closely.  Ladies and gentlemen not adhering to the dress code ALL NIGHT will be asked to change or leave. We have a "three strike policy."  If we have to ask a student three times to don their shawl, etc., it is an automatic removal from the dance with no refund.   Please contact us IN ADVANCE if you are wondering if your student has appropriate attire!  

3. LADIES ATTIRE GUIDELINES

NO STRAPLESS, NO OFF THE SHOULDER dresses

QUICK FIX: Clear straps can easily be tacked onto a dress.  Straps are available online and in stores.  OR provide a shrug or jacket for strapless dresses and explain to your student these must be worn all night long...even if they get warm. 

NO LOW BACK DRESSES  (must be solid, not sheeer, fabric starting at just below shoulder-blades)

QUICK FIX: A nude tube top or bandeau bra is inexpensive and readily available online and blends in well with skin.  

NO SHEER/SEE-THROUGH SIDES, CUTOUTS, BARE MIDRIFFS

QUICK FIX: A tube top in a complimentary or matching color is easily obtained online.  Please do not provide a nude tube top as we will have to pull your student aside to verify we are not seeing skin but fabric.  

NECKLINES should be STRAIGHT ACROSS, ARMPIT TO ARMPIT, SOLID FABRIC (NOT SHEER). 

QUICK FIX: Modesty panels or "camisettes" are inexpensive and readily available online and may be attached to bra straps or pinned into dresses.  These are availabe in nude and a variety of colors.  

SKIRT LENGTH must be TO THE TOP OF THE KNEE.  This applies to all OPENINGS, SLITS etc.

QUICK FIX: Coordinating pedal pusher yoga pants come in nude and a variety of colors.  Slits may be closed via sewing or safety pins.

UNDERGARMENTS PRESENT BUT NOT VISIBLE

QUICK FIX: Bike shorts, shapewear, tube tops, bandeau bras, etc. 

BIKE SHORTS under all dresses that twirl or flow

NO PANTSUITS

FORMAL WEAR ONLY, no costumes or cosplay

If you must tug at, pull up or down, or otherwise adjust your dress in order to meet guidelines, modifications are needed before you arrive.  Your dress should be compliant with dress code throughout the entire night and all activities.

4. GENTLEMEN ATTIRE GUIDELINES

TUXEDOES, SUITS, AND SPORT COATS are all permissible but at least one is REQUIRED. Vests are acceptable but not required.

BELT OR SUSPENDERS recommended

If JEANS must be worn (we do not encourage this), they must be DARK FABRIC (BLACK OR NAVY)

NECKWEAR is required (tie, bow tie, bolo, etc)

COLLARED SHIRTS are required.  No tee shirts, turtlenecks, etc.  

NO SHORTS

NO SWEATSHIRTS, HOODIES, ETC.

DRESS SHOES prefered but "Vans" and "Converse" style shoes are acceptable if clean and in good condition. NO OPEN TOED SHOES, SANDALS

If BOOTS are worn, must be polished dress boots

HATS are acceptable (cowboy hats, fedoras, top hats, flat caps, tams, etc.).  NO BALL CAPS OR CASUAL HATS

NO SLOPINESS

FORMAL WEAR ONLY, no costumes or cosplay

We really want your students to have a great time and do not want them to miss out on the fun because they had to go change.  PLEASE TEXT OR EMAIL US IF IN DOUBT!  There are generally very easy solutions to fix any issues.  

Mailing Address

933 CR 4010 Decatur, TX 76234